Stalking

Recognizing the signs early can Stalking is a pattern of repeated and unwanted behavior that causes a person to feel frightened, harassed, or threatened. It can involve physical actions, such as following or showing up uninvited, or non-physical actions, such as sending unwanted messages or monitoring someone’s activities online. Stalking behavior is often intrusive, persistent, and can escalate over time, leading to severe emotional, psychological, and physical consequences for the victim. children from harm.

While the specific actions can vary, stalking generally involves:

  • Repeated attempts to contact, follow, or spy on someone
  • Unsolicited gifts or messages that are ignored or rejected
  • Physical presence at places where the victim frequents (e.g., home, work, or school)
  • Cyberstalking (e.g., online harassment or monitoring)
  • Threats or intimidation

SLII Behaviors

Stalking includes a wide range of threatening and disturbing behaviors that can be classified into four categories: Surveillance, Life invasion, Intimidation, and Interference through sabotage or attack (SLII). These categories overlap and build on each other.

Victims of stalking rarely identify their victimization as stalking and are unlikely to use the word ‘stalking’ to describe what they’re experiencing. Research and practice show that officers should ask specific questions about stalking behaviors instead of simply asking if someone has been stalked/harassed.

Source: SPARC Stalking Prevention, Awareness, and Resource Center

Surveillance is the most commonly identified stalking tactic and includes watching and gathering information about the victim, in-person or through technology.

Intimidation tactics must be considered within the context of the situation, with the totality of stalking behaviors and the victim and offender’s relationship and history in mind. Threats can be explicit or implicit. Things that may be innocuous in a different context may become menacing due to their repetitiveness or intrusiveness, or because of the history of violence in the relationship between stalker and victim.

Interference through sabotage or attack can affect everything from the victim’s reputation to their employment and/or physical safety. A common and significant consequence is victims losing financial and other resources, which can quickly spiral.

Life Invasion describes ways that the offender is showing up in the victim’s life without the victim’s consent, in public or private settings, and in person or through technology.

How to Report Stalking

  • Contact Law Enforcement: If you are in immediate danger, call 911. If the stalking is not an emergency, contact your local police to file a report. Provide detailed information, including any evidence (e.g., text messages, emails, or photos).

  • Document the Behavior: Keep a log of all stalking incidents, including dates, times, and descriptions of the behavior. Save all communications (e.g., texts, emails, social media messages) and take photos of any unwanted gifts or items left behind. This documentation will help law enforcement investigate the situation.

  • Seek a Restraining Order: In many jurisdictions, you can file for a restraining order, which legally prohibits the stalker from contacting or coming near you. Consult with a legal professional or your local law enforcement for assistance.

  • Report Cyberstalking: If the stalking is happening online, report the harassing behavior to the platform (e.g., social media, email provider) and block the person. Save screenshots or any evidence of online harassment. Consider reporting it to law enforcement if it’s severe or persistent.

  • Contact Support Services: Reach out to local shelters, advocacy groups, or hotlines that specialize in supporting victims of stalking and domestic violence. These organizations can offer advice, legal assistance, and emotional support.